Thank you so much YoYo. It is true about the OW tearing the families apart, not just the H. He is so blind to her manipulations. The sad thing is, is that when he does realize it (if he ever does), it will be when he has lost everything. I wish you the best for you and your DD's. This is just so awful that our kids have to go through this as well. I keep telling myself that God wanted this to happen when it did, because my babies are only 17 months old and that they won't know any different from being at mom's and seeing dad for visitations. Right now, my H goes 8 days without seeing them or not even calling or texting to see how they are doing. Right now, this bothers me the most........keep up with what you are doing YoYo and thanking for all your sharing. It really helps me.