shmagic Trouble is when you have surgery many women DO NOT feel as sexy when you lose your breasts or womb so you CAN'T act as sexy as you did because that is not who you are any more. Part of what made you feel like a woman is gone and the fear of the future is still there. I can imagine many women feel that way. No problem with me believing some/many women and some men think that way.
I was putting in my $0.02 that most caring guys have heard women can feel/think they are less in some ways but the caring guy factors that loss into the R, to keep the R going.
Say the R used to go along at 65 miles per hour. Post surgery a caring guy will expect some things to be different and adjusts to a lower speed, additional navigational aids, shorter trips, etc. That is my mechanical explanation.
Yes it can be overcome and logically it doesn't make sense but hey since when has a woman been logical???? LOL I'm allowed to say that cos I'm a woman. That makes sense to me because I see something like that happening every week.
Actually may be available in America already Not here. We always think you Europeans have things first. LOL.
There are a bunch of products advertised on TV that make miracle claims, but none work. I am embarrassed as an American when I see some advertisements on TV. If people around the world judge and evaluate Americans by the movies and TV advertisements, they don't get a true picture of the common person. So many TV advertisements are not based on reality.
Betsey I follow/understand where you are coming from and do not disagree with anything you say or feel. You wrote and explained everything so much better than I could.
I just wanted you to know the guys I know don’t think any less of their female friends because something was removed. Most guys know the woman will feel some differences and losses.
Some guys wonder if it was them going through medical situation, how would they want things to be? How would they want to be treated? That leads to them hopefully understanding what their women go through and are feeling, so the men can act appropriately.
Betsey good luck with your surgery hopefully you'll feel better and keep us posted.
