Thanks to all my friends here

[glamgirl]

Lisa you are doing great, but don't make a decision on irrational thinking. I know in the beginning when things were spiraling out of control I was making rash decisions right and left. Canceling policies, changing the locks on the doors, canceling cell phones. Gosh you name it, I did it. I look back now and wished I hadn't taken that approach. I just really needed time to step back and let things play out.

I was even meeting with a D lawyer. I am glad now I didn't file. Yeah H is not home, but I still have hope. We are so much further today, than we were a year ago. We may still end up D'ed, but it won't be from a rash decision.

Hey at least your H is open to C and getting help. Many of us here are still waiting for that day. I would love it if H said hey I want to work things out. None of that for me yet!