To be honest, from what I've seen here, "standing" doesn't work.
Only leaving works.
Jazz, you're standing dude, whether you want to admit it or not
Scorpiogirl, I wish you all the best, it really sounds like you have put forth a herculean effort. I would NOT get back with your H unless he and you go through some serious relationship coaching together as well as individually. Your H obviously has some issues he needs to work out. You're on top of it obviously - good luck!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
