She rightnow is detremined to go through with this D and knowing her personality until she really gets knocked down she will not have learned her lesson.
Wow, my H and your W sound like they may have the same personalities. My H actually told me that he had to move away because he said that he was going to and he couldn't go back on his word. He must have forgotten about the words he promised me on our wedding day because he sure went back on those. I thought my H hit the bottom months ago, but then he becomes arrogant again. I'm still waiting for the day. It's going to come, but I think it will come when he sees me with someone else and realizes that he lost everything because of some woman that he doesn't even care about.
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I just hope that she doesn't cause to much more damage with family. They all have been hurt by all of this and that might make it hard to reconcile in the future. Especially with my IL's they deep down don't think that their daughter is in the right, but they are in the spot of loving/sympathizing her no matter what choices she makes. I have a hardtime with this but like they say blood is thicker then water.
My H has broken so many bridges with his family. Last week he told me that he was disowning his own mother because she will not stand by his side because she says that this is all so wrong. He gave me that same line that blood is thicker than water because it bothers him so much that his family actually wants to spend time with me. They would probably like to spend more time with him if he didn't lie about everything and was pleasant to be around. He's very frustrating to be around.
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