Thanks for the comments. I'm sorry that you are going through this too. I am to the same point as you wondering what kind of man does this? I want to be with someone that loves me and only me. My H is currently on a controling streak. He is trying to control me, his family, and now I even think my family. I guess that he can only control as much as I let him. I am working on that.
My H has not stated that he wants to be with OW or that he thinks that there is any future with her. His behavior is more about not making a decision than making one. At one point, he wanted me or OW to tell him to get lost so he wouldn't have to make a decision. I told him last week that it is was over, but he's called me 3 times this week, so much for over. He also talked to my mom and said that we really need to make a decision. Where the h$ll was he when we talked last week when I said that I can't do this anymore? He only hears what he wants to.
How did you completely move on? I am trying to do this right now. The sad thing is that the only way my H will believed I will have moved on is if I was seeing someone else. I need to go out more, so he can see that I am not sitting at home waiting for him. I have been doing a lot over the last couple of months, but going out on Friday and Saturday nights to bars isn't really my thing, but I think that is what I need to do so he sees that I am moving on.
