MC,
It sounds like you are at a good level of loving detachment now. Especially in you ability to validate what your wife is feeling. A couple of comments:

1. It will get easier, really!

2. It sounds like you are again becoming her best friend.

3. How often to "best friends" of the opposite sex ever stay that way?

4. Stay patient, TIME IS ON YOUR SIDE!

SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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