Donna,
I guess maybe I'm not the right person to give advice right now. I personally wouldn't keep living with someone that wanted to not be committed to be and said so (been there done that and I don't know how that was respectful to me or him but hindsight is 20/20). I don't know how that sends yourself a positive message, your children a positive message, or your H a positive message about how to treat you. I know others will say "believe half of what you hear" but .... these types of things now to me just seem silly that we put up with them.

Anyway, I'm going to a friend's house for a goodbye party (joining the airforce) and to sit by the pool and chill for a few hours. Possibly out dancing after that.

Hope everyone has a relaxing evening. Be kind to yourself.

Last edited by galing; 06/23/07 09:32 PM.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius

Me: 32 XH: 33
M: 8 years
Affair discovered: 06/2006
rediscovered: 11/2006
Separation: 04/2007
Divorced: 10/09/07