Does the pain ever go away?

[I_Still_Love_Him]

Jack_Straw,

So you are D, my D will also be final in about one week so time to move on with YOUR life. Let your XW live hers and I believe that the day will come when she will not be so happy anymore.

You have made improvements and you need to continue to look to a brighter future which doesn't include her as your W but simply as the mother of your kids. I was in a very dark place for a full year since my H left but I made a conscious decision to start living again. I have been and still listen to The Secret which I have on my iPOD and it gives me the strength I need to focus on ME, what I want to be, have or do. You can too but you have to want it more than anything else.

Your W may or may not ever come back but for now, you need to do what make YOU happy. If you believe in God, you know he will guide you down the right path, the one he believes is right for you even if you don't think it is, you need to have FAITH.

It is normal to have some down days but know that there will be many more up days when life looks great and it is all yours to have.

Try to do something fun this weekend.

Hugs,
ISLH