Sorry for not checking in last night but I was up since 3:00 am when I went to work friday so by the time I got home I could not keep my eyes open. Everyone it’s not too exciting but here it is. First let me set up the situation. My W and I take turns sleeping in my son’s room. He is afraid to sleep by himself (this is a whole another issue and it probably contributed to my marriage problems.) any who It was my turn to sleep in our room but. I told my W to go ahead and sleep there with S. I’ll sleep in his room when I get back. Now the reason I did this is because in our room you can hear the garage door open and I wanted her to hear me come home LATE. So at 7:30 OI told her I was going to take a shower and get ready to “go out”. I took my shower and (this is a little personal but) I put on this skimpy underwear the W bought me years ago. I did this because she would find them in the hamper the next day. I shaved and put on cologne (which I don’t do often) I ever “spilled” some on the sink so she would smell it when she got ready for bed. So I was all dressed up came out and said good bye I’ll see ya later and left. My first stop was at a book store. My plan even though is seems boring to most of you but I have not been out in a long time was to get a book and sit upstairs at this jazz club and read. (Ok I know this is not exciting but I was out right?). Anyway I did find the book after the affair but the book store was closing so I didn’t get it. Looking at the book it seemed not the right time in my sitch to read it. So I walked down the street to the bar I went to a couple of weeks ago with my Nephew (who is 5 years younger than me). We played pool there. So I go in and got a beer and sat at the bar. I noticed at the pool table was one of the guys I played pool with last time and went over to talk. (He had been there a while and was feeling pretty good. He remembered me. So I watched the pool game. (Andyv there were a lot of “Sheila’s there) that’s females for my American friends. I got checked out and I was checking them out. A little while one female came over to me and asked what was wrong I looked sad. (She was a little drunk and I seen her last time I was there she is a regular). I told her there was nothing wrong I was feeling fine and I was. (I wanted to get away form her though). So I sat around and met some guys played a little pool. See I am building a foundation at this place. I think after a few times more people will start to approach me when I become a ‘Simi regular”. So people bought me drinks I had a good time. I left about 11:30 to go home. When I got there I noticed the bedroom light was on in our room. Now My w usually stays up until about 10:30 so I don’t know if she was waiting for me to get home or was just up a litter later than normal. But I did not go in the house. I went to our camper and slept in there. At about 7:30 am I got up and opened the garage door and went into the house. My W had straightened up the bed in my son’s room. If she looks in there she may noticed that I didn’t sleep there. W was sleeping so I ate breakfast and then went to the store. When I got back it was 9:00 and she was still in bed. I went in there and she opened her eyes I said I’m sorry but I could not wait any longer I had to take my shower because I have a lot to do today (Sunday we are haveing family over for my sons B-day party. And I will be BBQing so I had to get the back yard cleaned up. She just said “what ever” not meanly. I took my shower (put my underwear on top of the clothes in the hamper). And started doing my chores. I have kept a PMA this morning. She has not asked where I was, what time I got home. Where did I sleep? Nothing. Sooo that is it. One thing I have noticed I have written a lot just now so I will not go into it right now but it seems my W is “GIVING ME SPACE”. I will give you more details on things I have noticed later. Overall even though nothing great happen I think I did pretty good for going out by myself. Got ta go clean the back yard
Later
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
