My 180's have not changed from when I first found this site five months ago. I do not react to his temper tantrums. The fighting evn though he says we no longer live together have diminished since way before he moved out. My R w/ my SIL & MIL has grown tremendously. We were never so close before. I do not call him at all and for let the voicemail get it when he calls. H will usually initated contact via IM while we r both at work. I do not hear from him at nights or weekends.
Why all the pursuing sexually though?? i dont know if you read the last few threads when H was away and opened up to me about his sexual needs so is he "testing" me out? Is something he wants to see if I do before he decide to move back? I have finall gotten some respect from him in the past month and he has gotten to where he does not point out my negatives anymore. I want to keep that respect and I just want to get to know him better since our biggest promblem was no communication only fighting. I saw his hospital wrist band so he did not "fake" it. So I as concern for him. My freind did cahnge her mind though. So we will go out tonight.
