Interesting take on the money. I think he rationalized it to himself that he did nothing wrong. You are right it's stealing. Now, if you knew my H before all of this I would not have thought he had this dark side of him or was even capable of what he did. Hmmmmmm could he have been in MLC before the business failed. I now think so. I also think in his mind he felt he was entitled to that money. Well, he was a partner in his mind, but in reality you don't do what he did to people and then walk away with no explainations nothing.
It's not that I lack confidence in myself. I don't feel that way. It's just that the decisions he was making were just wrong. It was kind of like whoa H who are you and what would bring you to make decisions like this. For example, the stealing not only from the business, but from family. I knew it was going on and felt I needed to confront him. Ok I confronted him in a shouting match, not exactly in good judgement now, but I was angry. How could he betray his own family. I tried on many occasions asking H what is going on with the finances of the business. Do you want to talk about them. He said nothing.
Ok Fixer, so if you see someone is for example stealing and lieing etc etc. How do you aproach these type people? Remember, I am the type of person that is straight forward and honest. I tell it like I see it. So, if you can't handle the truth your probably not going to like what I have to say.
Come on Fixer, why can't H understand that stealing is dead wrong?
Now H feels everyone is against him and nobody stood by and supported him through this ordeal. Well, that is true but family freinds, me we were all betrayed ourselves.
Thoughts! How do we fix this now Fixer. LOL I love it!
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