I'm glad you understand where I am coming from. Taking money from a buisness is not a bad buisness decision; it's called stealing. If your H is in MLC then he figured it was owed to him. Funny isn't it how people can reason out any behavior to suit there needs. Pointing out the stealing (when it's suppose to go unnoticed) may have made him feel guilty. I still think you need to figure a way to stop trying to prove your right. For two reasons. One you can always prove your right and be alone. Instead try a little humble pie. Two always trying to prove your right shows me you lack of confidence in yourself.
Enjoy life and let your H suffer the concequences of his own actions. You can always say something like I think you may want to rethink what your about to do. Then if he does something you don't agree with let him face the conquences. Don't say I told you so instead be by his side knowing you were right. If he says you should of never let me do that. Remind him he's old enough to make his own decisions.
