Whats your history? How long was each separation? Was there OW each time? If yes, same one? Just curious....
I am struggling with my H having an OW - i got that fortune cookie recently during separation and I have saved it as well. I hope it means that we'll get back together one day, and if not, that I will remarry some other great guy and will still be happily married. I want that. But for now, I will live happily and accept that thats enough.