I was wondering where you went, I missed your support and wise words.
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One thing I wanted to comment on was the MC. Are you still trying to talk your wife out of the divorce? Or did you hope the MC might do that?
I was actually hoping through MC she would get talked out of the D and make a commitment back to the M. Rightnow we are scheduled to go every other week for little while atleast. We'll have to sitback and see how it goes.
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By supporting her decision she's responsible for it and has nothing to fight against. By having your "support" she's fully responsible for the decision and you have the best chance of tension decreasing.
I have not supported her decision to this point. I guess it might be time for me to change my approach. If anything, like you said, it should decrease some of the tension that exists.
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Oh man, when you were massaging her back you should have blown in her ear!!! Instead of doing the expected, try doing the unexpected.
If I get another chance maybe I will try just that.... She did mention to me the yesterday that she was sore from the massage because she wasn't used to being touched. She used to get daily back massages like this and full body massage atleast once a week from me. She used to love recieving them and I used to love giving them.... Maybe she will get more comfortable asking for them again and I could bring her back down memory lane.
