I was married to that. Notice the operative word... "was." Your H is stuck in entitlement mode... "I have a need, you MUST meet it. And if you don't, then you are an x,y,z (fill in your string of cruel lines and names)."
Boy... talk about your turn on's, huh? Whew... let me rip my clothes off and have at 'em!
Uh... NOT.
Soooo..... what is the problem, exactly? You're feeling like a horrible, awful withholding woman because he says you have it made... and you don't want to jump his bones?
Okay. Re-read the post a few times... let it soak in... and then try and answer.
