Help! How should I handle this?

[mkultra]

I am not sure if I am an expert on this, but I will try to see it from her P.O.V. even though I do not really know your situation. First of all, I am not sure if posting on a jont prayer circle online is the best way to communicate. It may appear like a device to get her attention. I am sorry your son is sick. The same thibng happened to me this week and I could not reach my H, so I paniced. From now on, I think I will have to deal with those issues on my own if he wants to be out of reach or else he may think I am using their illness as a chance to be dependent and close.

Second, I do not think the money thing needs to be a factor for attracting certain women. It is great that you will be a better provider and that you are commited to your work. Sometimes attaction is about more simple things like attention , companionship, sympathy, admiraton, availability, etc. Women who are attracted to a guys wallet may be kind of shallow, but that is just my opinion because I do not make a lot of money , but my relatives do.

There may be lots of reasons why we avoid each other so do not fret over that. For me, I avoid seeing my husband out of pride, anger, and sadness. It may be time for you to go dark. I hope your son feels better. Some bug is going around in our parts. A lot of puking! Yuck.