Went to T last night by myself. Told him the same thing I had told the last two Ts. He wants to try to get her to back to couples counseling. I said not right now. She wants nothing to do with therapy right now. She wants out. He said that I know my situation better than he does and if I don't think it's time, then don't do it. But as soon as she seems to soften a bit, go for it. I am hesitant to do that. I will continue to just go by myself and let her say what she wants to do and validate.