Yep, I'm still here (the reports of my death are greatly exaggerated ;\) ).

Gosh...I was so hoping we hadn't heard from you because things were going so well you no longer needed us or you were so busy rediscovering each other and makin' love that you didn't have time to check in.

I think your attitude is probably as best as can be expected under the circumstances (and probably better than most). I suppose you now wait as she once did....