Fixer, but the problem is H does not ask for my opinion. I don't get the chance to discuss it with him. He says it's non of your business. Then the real trouble starts when I give him my opinion, because he is way off base and I can see the end result already.

I can't really give an example because all the ones I am thinking of are I would find out after the fact that he had made a poor business decision and then I would say what were you thinking why would you do something like that.

In the beginning he blamed me for everything. It's true I did get involved with the business by discussing with his partner what was H doing and then discussed with his family. So part of this whole thing is that H is bitter and angry over my actions. Many times I have to say to H that was a long time ago let it go!

Ask him about rebuilding or NO. Yeah and now he wants to start another business. What is he thinking?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"