I have no problem with positive stories. And I also believe that if you are going to stand for your marriage, that is what you do.
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I found in reading that many many many on different sits know and acknowledge it is a dead end relationship
With the people I know, I have found the opposite. And I believe you will find that most people don't marry the first person they meet.
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I have heard statistics stating that only 1-10% of men actually leave their wives.
Where?
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Hoever, you have to wonder how many people just felt they didn't need it any longer becasue things started looking better in their M and they decided to stop communicating here in order to work on their marriage.
I know many people who stopped communicating here, and periodically, keep in touch. Know how many are working on their marriage? Zero.
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I have threads where the WAS regretts not working out with thier spouse and if they had the chance they would.
I don't doubt that. Can you show us some?
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My pastor also addressed this in a recent sermon. He said that many do come back but then see or feel their spouse moved on.
NYC has many people, 8.2 million. Of course that many amounts to 2.7% of the entire USA. Many is a meaningless term statistically speaking.
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I did state "eventually" and IF the LBS did not move on. But statistics say that most do come back. Even in MLC as per the Conways.
Again, show me the statistics. Did Conway actually leave? I know he didn't cheat on his wife.
HeartScared, again, I have no problem with having a positive outlook on life. You have mentioned a number of times that the statistics show this or that. Please show the source. I have heavy training in statistics. I am always willing to be shown that I am mistaken.
The real problem is that I have seen far too many people get caught up in their spouse's alledged MLCs and everything they do is based on getting their spouse back rather than living their life.
