Where were you when H and I were going through our issues to begin with?
Making the same mistakes you were. Not with a failed M, but taking care of our D.
Bringing up a man's failures is not a good idea. Asking a man how something went wrong is just a piece in a puzzle to him. I think you and H should go out on some dates. Promises him you won't talk about the R - that want to talk about anything light and casual. Sports, up and coming events or even someone elses failed M.
