Thanks Jules! Very good advice as always. You really are an incredible mother. A C I talked to over the phone once back in the fall said that D6 would be the one to have the hardest time with it..middle child, female, etc.
The boys seem to be doing pretty well. I do ask them once in a while if they have any questions about anything that is going on, etc. But they usually don't...seem to be rolling with it pretty well.
Still hard for me to believe that my kids are going to "come from a broken family". Just blows my mind. Can't control that but I sure as hell can control being there for them.