Hey S2H... Sorry to hear about D6. She and my D are the same age and I worry about her. One thing that has helped my D6 is talking to another child her age whose parents are D'd. They were just shooting the breeze by themselves and it came it so it was pretty surreal, but she seems much better. I also know that my D4 has a hard time letting me out of her sight now, so I try to let her know what I'm doing if I'm going out of eyesight for even a minute. Don't want her to feel any more abandoned than she kind of does.
That all said, I am amazed at how well my kids are adapting. Sure we are going to have tough times. Sure it is hard and rips at my heart strings. But I just keep reminding them I have unconditional love for them and that the invisible string between our hearts has been there since they were conceived and will never break. Kids are amazing. But they do need to see parents who are ok with the sitch. They are taking clues from us. So although it can kill me sometimes, I make a point of being overly excited for their times w/ H.
Ok... just realized I'm rambling. Hope something here helped, if nothing else that I feel your pain. Have a great weekend and keep enjoying yourself!
