Please know I wasn't trying to oversimplify it either. This is a HUGE thing and it will be hard for them and a big adjustment and it needs to be thought about, planned, and worked on. But I know you as their dad will do that.


Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius

Me: 32 XH: 33
M: 8 years
Affair discovered: 06/2006
rediscovered: 11/2006
Separation: 04/2007
Divorced: 10/09/07