Fixer I think you are dead on. Thanks for saying about assuming. H has repeatedly said this to me. It might just be an EA with OW. H has told me over and over quit telling me what to do.

Well yes If you would just stop making stupid decisions, then I wouldn't have to tell you what to do. There was some really questionable business decisions being made before the business went under like missing money etc.

You are right fixer H didn't feel important from me. I saw the business failing and I knew it was going to go down the way it did, but H wouldn't listen to me. He didn't want my advice and still doesn't. He even mentioned this week he wanted everyone to STOP telling him what to do.

H was not stable before he lost the business. I think he was going into depression then. We fought all the time about the business and then the porn sites, everything just went to hell in a hand basket.

It just got worse from there. He filed a restraining order against me etc etc etc. Now as you can see we are on a way different playing field from a year ago.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"