H got a letter from my L and I haven't been speaking to him. He is freaking out, he has been leaving me vm's saying he is getting help please give him time, please don't divorce him he loves yme, he really messed up ,he is getting help, he has an appointment for therapy and will I please go- he can't belive he screwed up so bad again- etc.. I have ignored him except that he asked me to add him as a friend on myspace, I did and I have posted some happy comments to him but nothing serious about us. He talks to the kids but I have stayed busy- he called and wanted to take us to the springs on Sunday and cook out as a family- I haven't answered him yet. He got the kids on Wednesday night and wanted to take me with them to dinner- I nicely turned him down.
Hope I am doing what is right, I am really confused ,I am writing this mainly as a place to put my thoughts.
Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
