I'm sorry Scott.

Are the kids going to counseling at all? Maybe would be good to be proactive and get them someone to talk to about all of this and to learn some coping mechanisms for it? I have no idea...just a thought.

The kids are going to be okay though. I just know they will be. As long as you love them and have a great relationship with them and a positive relationship with their mom, they are going to come out of this okay.


Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius

Me: 32 XH: 33
M: 8 years
Affair discovered: 06/2006
rediscovered: 11/2006
Separation: 04/2007
Divorced: 10/09/07