Ugh....so my D6 was in my room about an hour ago crying. Upset because mommy wasn't home. Upset because she doesn't get to see her as much as she gets to see me. Upset because "you and mommy don't get to see each other much and that's not fair". My D6 wanted to be a Nurse just like her mommy...well tonight she told me that she didn't anymore because that means she won't get to be with her family and that's not fair to them.
I know my W thinks the kids are resiliant and she has convinced herself that the kids will be better off, etc. Sucks. The boys seem ok...they seem to be rolling with it pretty well. D is always concerned about who is where. When one of us comes home or one of us leaves she overly showers us with attention. I told her tonight that if she ever had questions or if she was ever sad or anything that she needs to talk to me about it. She said "yeah, but you're not always here". So I said...well then you need to talk to mommy. I can't protect my W from it and my D should be able to talk to her mother about it.
She is such a great little girl and this is just ripping her apart inside. Fing sucks.
