Ok Fixer. H is 38 Me 46, S18, S5, D3 M7 Separated 8/06. No pg Came back 1/07 2 weeks without any notice or talking nothing. Just appeared. I went along with it, since I didn't know what to do. Then just as he appeared he left again.

He lost a business, had some falling out with business partner, OW appeared but they both deny anything is going on. H has falling out with family over money. I think H is deeply depressed. All the time talks of rebuilding, rebuilding, rebuilding. What does that mean?

No MLC behavior with clothes, gym, peircing's, really the opposite gained some weight I think from eating lots of fast food. I am a great cook and I am sure he is missing that. At times before he found work after he lost his business, I wondered if he had taken a shower in a week.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"