My H did the same to me. He actually called me one day (after the D) and told me he was asking OW to marry him. I took a deep breath and told him "Good Luck with that". That COMPLETELY took him by surprise. He was not expecting that at all. After that, he showed up on my doorstep begging me back. He knew at that point that I was letting him go. By the way...he never intended on asking OW to marry him...he was just trying to get at me.

I would have loved to have "played" around with him...I just never could bring myself to be the OW. After all...I was supposed to be #1...and as long as he was involved with OW....I was not going to settle for being something on the side.

M-38
H-40 MLC
S15
A started in 5/05
S in 12/05
D in 05/06
re-M in 07/06
A FINALLY over as of 5/07