I just went through all of my db posts since I joined the site in fall. It is crazy to look back at the past 8 months and the last year. So many positives have come out of the year but really I was looking back in the journaling to get a sense I guess of patterns. I don't have the energy to post about them right now but I will later. I definitely saw some regarding my behavior and Hs. I'm going to go take a bath and pamper myself some. That was a lot to read.


Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius

Me: 32 XH: 33
M: 8 years
Affair discovered: 06/2006
rediscovered: 11/2006
Separation: 04/2007
Divorced: 10/09/07