Well the homework is being put off for another day but, once again, it was mutual. We both worked today (H since 11:30 last night so he's exhausted) and we then did yardwork when I got home. However, when I was finished (or semi finished) mowing the lawn, he said he would finish it because I needed to go start supper, to which replied "just make something simple". I asked him if he wanted to take a shower before supper and he misunderstood, but I went with the flow. He thought I meant together and said "no let's do that after supper then we can just relax and we can do our massage tomorrow"
It is still VERY hard to trust as I wonder sometimes if he is just trying to deceive me with the good stuff so I won't notice the bad stuff but I have to try and get myself out of that mind set.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)