I need some understanding from the men out there.

[fightingirish]

I have been married for 16 years, we have 2 sons, one is 4 the other is 18mos. We have had our share of problems, but lately it's gotten bad. My question is, without having the time to post my stich yet, Is there something with men only feeling closeness to their wives when they are ML? I should say sex, beacause my h is extremely kinky and this is just what if feels for me 90% of the time. I can't get passed it. Its all that is on his mind. He is really moody and mean when he doesn't get it 2 to 3 times a wk. I know im not as sexually active as his is, plus I have two small children who sleep very poorly, which by the way he doesn't care.

I feel that this is all he likes about me. He works ALOT, and owns his own business. I've tried to talk to him about it and he dismisses it. Sometimes I think I really made a big mistake in staying with him this long. He can be very cruel at times and thinks he works so much harder than me (im a stay at home mom) although he does NOTHING around the house, or takes care of the kids or the book work for his business or the estimates.. I do it all. He absoultely thinks that I have it made... ok Im rambling.. I will post my stitch tomorrow, but just wanted to get some feed back from the men out there on how they feel sexually about their wives and the emotional needs you have.

Thanks...


Me: 35
Him: 42
kids: 4 and 1 year and 1/2
married 16 years