Originally Posted By: JazzzGtr
Originally Posted By: 789
She also let me know that she was not moving towards divorce but at the same time does not want to give me hope. She also let me know that she is also lonely during this time. She did give me a hug as I was leaving.
If she was really done, none of this would be the case. You've told her how you feel, now go dark and give her some space. It's going to take some time - took me over 7 months - but she'll eventually soften and remember the good stuff.


I agree, I think in her own way she was telling me to disappear, let her have the space. I plan on going as dark as possible with a son involved. I think at this time I need the darkness as much as she does, if not more.


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07