I think every LD person needs to understand these statements. The sad part I don't think many of the LD people do understand the HD's wants.
Fran Sex is just such a weird feedback loop it's partly about ourselves and our own egos and partly about the other person's and it can't just be about rubbing body parts together and having a good time - sigh if only.
And added to that because you want to give as much as you want to get, your gift is being refused which adds insult to injury.
Saying no just opens such a massive can of worms - if only I'd known then what I know now.
Too many times I heard sex was just rubbing two things together
