I know this is a little late but I had to post it.

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The OW in my case, told me in an email she has no ill will towards me. UMMMMMMM, how nice?


My H's OW sent me an email saying about the same, she hoped we could work through all of this in the future. All the while scolding me for feeling ill will toward her. WOW, really nice of her considering we were supposed to be friends and she went after my H.

Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.