Peicing hurts like hell and is harder than...

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Thanks Gwen, and good luck to you too. One day at a time.

For me, I'm realizing I'm giving up way too easily. I need to toughen up and keep trying. It's worth it to me. Yes, it would be easier to just get it over with, and when I think about the pain, and the OM/jealousy, and (I hate to say) what I may be missing by sticking with my W when there are probably lot's of women my age who would appreciate a thoughtful kind man, I want to quit.

But then I remember that I do love her. I remember what all I did to lead up to this situation. No one deserves this, but I am at fault too, not just her. I can keep trying (how long, I don't know, but I'm going to try).

I hope you find more peace and happiness soon.