Like, I need to let last summer go. Not forget, but not continue living it. It's not getting me closer to my goal, which is a close, loving R with my husband.
So I will stop being a brat, stop thinking H owes me restitution for my hard work last year. I will do what I know is right to do, I will tell H what I need from him, I will not shut down and become the WAS.
Originally Posted By: Jen_Jam
WOO HOO!!!! SD you sound good. Your bit about stopping being a brat and looking for the big apology ... I came to this conclusion too. it would be LOVELY if our WAS's sat us down and said "I am so sorry I hurt you, I was totally wrong" But it rarely happens. It's also worth remembering that they had their own brand of nightmare to get through as well.
Wow, great news, SD! That's the positive, assertive, solution-oriented, amazing woman I remember so well from last summer - it is wonderful to see you back in the game, full steam ahead!
What else can I say to both of you, except - your husbands are two uncommonly lucky men!
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
