What makes me the most angry right now is what he's doing to D. He went from seeing her daily, to seeing her at least every day after school to seeing her just on his weekends and it's taking a toll on her and on me. She's emotional, smart mouthed lately and cries about everything. And this is just the beginning. I was thinking we need to talk to her so she knows what's happening but then I don't want to. I don't know what to do.
You need to have a talk with her. She was having behavioral problems when you first came here. Set the boundaries and enforce them or she'll walk all over you by the time she's 12.