Thanks you all,
Update~ He just called a bit ago.
He is coming/flying home tommorrow,, dunno if I am ready for it. \:\(

I have not mentioned "it" again. He did.He also tried to start w/ me. I stood up for myself gently but firmly and he backed down, I did manage to say " I had nothing to do w/ what happened yesterday and I am not asking you to fix change it or make it go away, it happened and it cant be taken back ,you brought it up. I am fine , but what was done to me by her calling was rude and I do not want to discuss it futher."
Any thoughts on how to just act as if all over again?
~Ali