interesting perspective. I was thinking something similar (see below).
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For a long time, I just figured he was in a hurry to get to her. But it's when he started repeating what I say on the phone that I started to wonder WTF was going on. He seems to be trying to make it clear who he is talking to and what he is talking about. My take on it is that either he wants her to feel secure (and she's not, or why bother?), or she is controlling. Either way, it doesn't sound like a healthy R.
This has all made me realize that I don't think H and I could ever get back together b/c I just wouldn't want to deal with the stress of not trusting him, and I don't see how I could get past that. Not that I'll ever need to probably.
It does hurt to see him falling all over himself to make her happy - e.g. taking time off work to spend the day with her - when he hasn't done that for me since the earliest days. He didn't even take the day off when I was in the hospital miscarrying! I so want to say something to him about that. I know, I know - don't. Makes me mad, though.
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