the lost Mrs. Choc. has set up an appointment with a family law attorney. July 13th; it's on her calendar (conveniently left open on the kitchen counter -- for me to see??). That open message is a tough one. It also tells me she doesn't have the where-with-all to be up front with you, so expect her hiding more things from you, but giving hints.
At this point, I'm really just fighting to bust up the affair, and to lead her back to a place where her heart is right with God and she's happy moving forward in her life. If that is with me -- great -- I'd love to try. If it's not, well at least I will feel like I did my job. Chocolateeyes, I can relate to those thoughts and related feelings.
I am not encouraging you to stay or go, but your situation reminds me of the recent, new TV program.
In previous episodes, an XW loaded her XH trophy car in a cargo plane and pushed the car out the cargo door ramp at an altitude of several thousand feet, to the desert floor below.
In another episode a guy dropped his soon to be XW, boy friend’s truck repeatedly from a tall crane and I thought of Mrs. Choc’s trainer’s truck.
