I'm glad you brought that up because I was wondering the same thing -- can you request that?
Yep, you can if your state offers it. Mine does. I haven't gone to that level yet, as I'm hoping my W will want to go with me to the counselor of OUR choosing, but that is in my back pocket along with a few other things if the situation progresses badly. It's not so far, but it is nice to know there are some options down the road if need be.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...