He asked me if I was seeking an attorney, etc. etc. and then H's L told him about the "agreement to an agreement" and he asked me if I agreed. I kind of shrugged my shoulders and said I know we can come to an agreement on the other items - I just don't want this divorce so I can't agree to that. Of course he told me gently LOL that it didn't matter and I said I knew that.......which was what sent me into tears.
Well, it does matter but unfortunately, it costs a LOT of money. You can fight the D til you're broke and beyond and make it last as long as you want. Just don't agree to anything. In my state, if there is no agreement, the D proceedings can go on for years! Go look up your state statutes and see if you can get court-ordered counseling to slow things down. I know that's available in a lot of states.
Otherwise, the L's will run you through the D ringer as fast as they possibly can. They just treat clients like cattle and move on to the next ones...
Good luck UA, I'm praying for you...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
