I think the WAW's need to do some of the work too, at some point. Sometime in all this, they have to let us know what's going on in their head! It's completely unfair (and I know life isn't fair) for them to say they don't know what they want. YES THEY DO! They want a happy family life, they want a loving husband, they want to feel loved, they want to enjoy life, they are just like the rest of us! We all want to be happy. They either take one more chance on their family now or blow it up and go try somewhere else! Why do they think someone else would be able to make them happy?
We as the LBS's have to discover their love languages, treat them how they deserve to be treated, give up all selfishness (no, not to be a doormat, that's not giving up selfishness) and forgive each other and BE HAPPY! It's really not that hard.
789, I think your W is closer than you think, how long have you been separated? About the same as me I think. Maybe you need to do what Jazz did and pull away a little. Make her miss you. With you there (or on the phone, or whatever) all the time, she doesn't ever miss you and miss what good you had in your relationship.
Have a GREAT day!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
