Amy I wanted to tell you something ironic. When I got into the courtroom, I kept remembering what you said - that I needed to stand. I watched all these other divorces granted in under 10 minutes, almost all of them sitting at a table.
Because we didn't have the agreement in place, and I had to talk to his lawyer in the hall, and then we had to go back in - we didn't have a chance to sit at a table. We stood - two feet from the judge.
He asked me if I was seeking an attorney, etc. etc. and then H's L told him about the "agreement to an agreement" and he asked me if I agreed. I kind of shrugged my shoulders and said I know we can come to an agreement on the other items - I just don't want this divorce so I can't agree to that. Of course he told me gently LOL that it didn't matter and I said I knew that.......which was what sent me into tears.
So anyhow - I'm off again today - taking time, and actually sleeping a lot......
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
