WOO HOO!!!! SD you sound good. Your bit about stopping being a brat and looking for the big apology ... I came to this conclusion too. it would be LOVELY if our WAS's sat us down and said "I am so sorry I hurt you, I was totally wrong" But it rarely happens. It's also worth remembering that they had their own brand of nightmare to get through as well.
So you're right - it's about your aims, not blames. It's the journey, not the destination.
And as for LW - what better revenge on her than for her to see you & your H happy together... hee hee hee, so long bee-ach, your plans came to nothing, you are so insignificant. Hee hee hee
And as for Guatamala - I would LOVE to come, but money won't permit it. I did really think about it a lot though. I'm planning a trip to the US hopefully next year - If I do make it I WANT YOU THERE!!! If you come anywhere near Europe too let me know.
One final interesting fact - you know our sitches have been spookily similar? Well, I used to teach too!!! I was an English teacher to speakers of other languages for about 3 years. Sometimes I miss teaching, I never put on any weight with all the trips to the photocopier, lugging books up flights of stairs etc etc.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.