Stewart, Keep taking care of yourself, I know how hard this whole thing is. I'm not sure she needs or wants sanctioning. I know that if you actively try to talk her out of it, it will definitely happen. It does feel better to actually be doing something and it feels like we have at least some control when we are making decisions like telling them to go ahead and leave. The reality is we don't have any control over any of this, and that is what makes it so so hard to get a handle on. Remember nothing you do will shorten the length of time this goes on, but there is plenty you can do that will prolong it. You're a good guy Stewart, I appreciate all your kind words on my thread, and I'm really rooting for you.
