Thanks OT~ He called before and he took forever as he was trying to think of another BIG FAT LIE! I stayed calm and when he called later I did just that I said.... there is no reason for you to act this way. I did not engage and this is it for me. IT PISSED HIM OFF EVEN MORE. OH WELL, he needs to grow up and I am no longer going to "enable" his being an A$$HOLE. I know who I am and that is an amazing Woman..... he can come with me and once and for all grow up or I dunno. I am not going to force him to change but if he does not react to his own stupidity then I will keep setting boundaries to keep myself safe and if he doesnt like it too bad. Strong , loving and respectful thats me and I am going to get thru this but I will NO LONGER ALLOW HIM TO SPIT IN MY FACE AND TAKE HIS SO CALLED LOVE ANYMORE. I HAVE COME TO FAR TO LET HIM DRAG ME DOWN/DEGRADE ME TO HIS LEVEL. SO I feel frustrated but he cant stop me now,,,, he will not continue to bellitle me. In one ear out the other ,,, but at the same time ~I will stand up for me. Thanks OT,, you are the best!
